My soul is sad. Being right. I’m starting to understand why it causes wars. If I believe THIS THING (whatever it is) HAPPENED and you believe it didn’t… Now its MY belief against YOURS. Who is right? Who is wrong?
Would it be “worth” the relationship to say, “this thing didn’t happen” just to “agree” with you and belong? And lose my own sense of “knowing what’s right inside of me?” Should I give up MY BELIEF, my knowing, my self, to be close to you? To be accepted? To belong?
Being Right, This is Why Wars Start
Either you believed Jews were bad, or you were a Jew or you helped Jews. Pick a side. There’s no neutral. What do you believe? Your life depends on it. Will you give up your BELIEFS to survive? Or will you keep your beliefs and be thrown away, killed, annihilated?
Did It Happened or Didn’t It?
What would a world look like where I believe THIS HAPPENED and you believe IT DIDN’T and we could still love and accept each other?
“What if I can forgive you for what I think happened, but you don’t think it happened?”
Am I better than you now? Am I on the “high ground?” Or is this just more judgment and protection?
Believing something and not being able to give up your belief.
Neanderthals and Tribals
For 10 million years we were tribal creatures who depended on each other for survival. If you got “thrown out” of the pack, or didn’t “belong” it meant certain death. This is why rejection is LITERALLY more painful than cutting off your arm (measurably, in science, this is true. The brain has more of a pain reaction to rejection than losing a limb).
Being Right: My Truth and Your Truth Can be Two Totally Different Things
What if …
What if you’re wrong?
What if they’re wrong?
What if IT DID happen?
What if it didn’t?
Who knows the “truth?”
Some would say God. On judgment day, you’ll find out the truth. God’s truth. If there is such a thing.
If three people watch a car accident from 3 perspectives and all tell their stories about it, who’s “right?”
They all are.
Letting Go of Beliefs and Loving Unconditionally
What if we could let go of giving a shit about who’s right and who believes what? And just leave each other alone and let people think and believe whatever they want and just move on? What if we could do that?
Can We Overcome the Desire of Being Right and Overpower Others Within Us?
But, clearly, as a human culture, a war-ridden civilization, clearly, we cannot … Sometimes not even in our own homes.
I’m sad.
I wish there was a solution. I can only imagine the solution is forgiveness, acceptance, tolerance, love and non judgment.
Can we do it?
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I love you unconditionally … Under these conditions, no … That’s not unconditional.
What can YOU do? Would you let go of your beliefs? Would you forgive? What would you do?
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Heather Hundhausen, a mind/body/spirit healer and facilitator, works with heart centered individuals who are ready to release their physical and emotional pain and reconnect their minds with their bodies so they can start living a life of passion and purpose. She assists people in making decisions in their lives by following their heart, mind, intuition and soul, from a place of being whole and in integrity.
With over fifteen years as a licensed massage therapist, Heather understands the connection between how someone's emotions can show up as physical pain. Using a variety of massage techniques, including neuromuscular therapy and structural realignment, she now does her ground breaking work by helping her clients to reach back through the pain and remember who they are to create wholeness and fullness.
During her years practicing traditional massage therapy, and while an intern working on her Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling, she realized that people responded strongly when addressing their feelings and not just their thoughts. Working with this knowledge, she began to create an experiential environment for her clients, having them focus less on what they were thinking and more on what they were feeling. She discovered that when people began to release their emotions, they also released their physical pain. Heather is now passionate about helping people do just this so they hear their inner voice and then act upon their intuition so they create a new physical, mental and emotional life for themselves.
Heather’s authenticity, integrity, honor, commitment to her clients, and ability to create trust ensures that client's have a safe space to experience the exploration and release of their pain. Her clients say she is skilled at spiritual and emotional healing and is a great partner to have on the journey to contentment. As one particular client stated, “She opened my heart so the grief could emerge and then joy was able to fill that space.”
Heather is a popular speaker and workshop leader and facilitator, with one of her most popular workshops, “Connect on Purpose: Interpreting Your Body's Signals for Greater Wisdom and Empowerment” helping guide people to live their purpose, which Heather describes as “being able to take your talents and gifts and put them into action.” She is currently authoring a book and developing additional workshops, including a meditation group.
A licensed massage therapist, specializing in Thai Massage, Neuromuscular Therapy and Myo-skeletal Alignment Technique, she has a Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling, is certified in Redirecting Children’s Behavior as a facilitator and coach.
