by Heather Hundhausen | Nov 12, 2019 | Anger, Fear, Good Enough, Love, No Punishment, Peace, Relationships, Trust
And then the WORST thing happened. You hurt my feelings. Then it was the worst night. My feelings got SOO hurt… When I tried to share, what I was saying hurt my partner. Now we are BOTH hurt! No one can see or hear the other. We both feel unseen. Unheard. Not cared about. Defensive. Scared. We both shut down. I cry. You pull away. Hell on earth. (more…)
by Heather Hundhausen | Jun 19, 2019 | Anger, Mind, Relationships
My soul is sad. Being right. I’m starting to understand why it causes wars. If I believe THIS THING (whatever it is) HAPPENED and you believe it didn’t… Now its MY belief against YOURS. Who is right? Who is wrong? (more…)
by Heather Hundhausen | Dec 19, 2018 | Anger, Empowerment, Fear, Mind, Peace, Relationships
Do you feel like pleasing everyone for Christmas is just impossible? Do you try to figure out how to survive the holidays? Do family members make requests of you that you normally would never honor, but you do in the name of “the holidays”? If you don’t do the activities you’re looked at as that family member who is selfish (and you feel terrible about yourself). (more…)