Pleasing People and Lying versus Being Honest and Authentic

Pleasing People and Lying versus Being Honest and Authentic

Let’s start a hard conversation. People pleasing. Lying. Hiding. Versus Being Honest. Authentic. Open. There are prices and payoffs to both of these ways of living. Which one is better? I’m not going to judge and say something is right or wrong… But I can tell you, from experience, which one FEELS better to BE and be in RELATIONSHIP with long term. (more…)

I Change My Life By Laughing At All Of It

I Change My Life By Laughing At All Of It

I’m going through a profound transformation. Everything I thought I knew is dissipating as I learn to surrender control more and more. I can be a perfectly clear, loving, non-judgmental, divine space for others, especially clients … but still struggle to release attachment to my partner/family and heavily judge myself. Read more about how I can now laugh at all of it and change my life. (more…)

How to Deal With Rejection

How to Deal With Rejection

You don’t know how to deal with rejection? We spend a lot of time worrying about rejection. Why? In tribal culture, if we were rejected by our tribe, it literally meant we would be alone in the wilderness. The chance of surviving this is slim to none. And sometimes, humans make no sense. Sometimes, one is threatened by another, and the one in the “power” position expels the other for whatever reason. Learn more about on how to deal with rejection and the four key actions you want to take to overcome it. (more…)