Pleasing People and Lying versus Being Honest and Authentic

Pleasing People and Lying versus Being Honest and Authentic

Let’s start a hard conversation. People pleasing. Lying. Hiding. Versus Being Honest. Authentic. Open. There are prices and payoffs to both of these ways of living. Which one is better? I’m not going to judge and say something is right or wrong… But I can tell you, from experience, which one FEELS better to BE and be in RELATIONSHIP with long term. (more…)

10 Buckets for Work Life Balance: #1 The Awareness Bucket – Noticing Your Thoughts, Emotional and Body Pain

10 Buckets for Work Life Balance: #1 The Awareness Bucket – Noticing Your Thoughts, Emotional and Body Pain

The pain body and the astral body, what would it be like for you to have a life of balance, peace and awareness? Work life and home life are in peace and balance. I got to start my life of pretty traumatic, and I’m so lucky because it’s taught me so much. (more…)

How Can I Be Happy During the Holidays?

How Can I Be Happy During the Holidays?

Do you hear yourself asking how you can be happy during the holidays? When someone asks you “how would you like your life to be different,” do you answer, “I wish I was happy”? Trust me, you’re not alone. And forget about trying to be HAPPY during the holidays, the most wonderful(ly stressful) time of the year.  There is SO MUCH TO DO and prepare for.  Presents to buy, lists to make, cookies to bake, the tree to decorate, the lights in the yard, keeping up with the neighbors, visiting god-forsaken relatives that you purposefully avoid the rest of the year to keep your sanity.  Someone told me that they purposefully would WORK on the holidays to avoid the stress and family! (more…)