I am worthy of love. When you say this to yourself, do you believe it? Or do you hear your “little mind” telling you all of the reasons why you are not worthy of love?
Do You BELIEVE You Are Worthy of Love?
Do you believe that you are lovable?
Do you believe God created YOU In His Image and that He loves you unconditionally?
God Created YOU in His Image
If YES, then therefore you are lovable.
Because you are lovable, you are worthy of love.
“You Are Unlovable” Proof
I have very many stories in my history to prove that I am unlovable. I have MANY failed relationships.
Unworthiness to Get What You Need
I allowed the story of unworthiness and unlovable to overpower my ability to set boundaries or ask for what I needed.
I Am a Victim
This limiting belief turned me into a victim. I victimized myself. And then I put myself in relationships where I could become victimized. I continuously gave away my power, because I believed that I was Unworthy of love, because I was unlovable.
Connecting with My Divinity
When I allow myself to connect with my Divinity, my goddess, the Holy Spirit, whatever you want to call it, I know that I am lovable. Because I am loved by the Divine, I am worthy of love. Because I was created in Divinity, I am worthy of love.
Until I learned to control my thoughts, until I learned listen to my body instead of numb myself, until I learn to take time in every moment to check in with my higher self, what I call the Holy Spirit, every moment of every day before every action I take, I made myself a victim by believing this story. I continued to allow people to treat me as if I was Unworthy of love. I allowed myself to be treated like trash. Because deep down, in my denial, underneath all my superiority, I believed that’s what I was.
Everyone else is worthy of love but me.
Worthy of Love By Controlling Your Thoughts
That sentence in my Consciousness made me realize something was wrong/off with my thinking.
- How could everyone else be loved but not me?
- How could God create everyone else in His image and love them, and not me?
I was so committed to believing those stories that I created many ways of distracting myself, sabotaging myself, hurting myself, hurting others in order to sabotage myself, refusing to accept what others offered me, refusing to accept help, refusing to not be “strong” ( in other words, be vulnerable)… I created a life in which I suffered.
Moments of Peace
There are profound moments of peace now. There are incredibly beautiful, soulful moments. Where there’s nothing to do, there are no thoughts, I don’t have to BE anyone. I just simply am.
My goal now is to be able to do this all the time because I have the tools in place. Do you?
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Heather Hundhausen, a mind/body/spirit healer and facilitator, works with heart centered individuals who are ready to release their physical and emotional pain and reconnect their minds with their bodies so they can start living a life of passion and purpose. She assists people in making decisions in their lives by following their heart, mind, intuition and soul, from a place of being whole and in integrity.
With over fifteen years as a licensed massage therapist, Heather understands the connection between how someone's emotions can show up as physical pain. Using a variety of massage techniques, including neuromuscular therapy and structural realignment, she now does her ground breaking work by helping her clients to reach back through the pain and remember who they are to create wholeness and fullness.
During her years practicing traditional massage therapy, and while an intern working on her Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling, she realized that people responded strongly when addressing their feelings and not just their thoughts. Working with this knowledge, she began to create an experiential environment for her clients, having them focus less on what they were thinking and more on what they were feeling. She discovered that when people began to release their emotions, they also released their physical pain. Heather is now passionate about helping people do just this so they hear their inner voice and then act upon their intuition so they create a new physical, mental and emotional life for themselves.
Heather’s authenticity, integrity, honor, commitment to her clients, and ability to create trust ensures that client's have a safe space to experience the exploration and release of their pain. Her clients say she is skilled at spiritual and emotional healing and is a great partner to have on the journey to contentment. As one particular client stated, “She opened my heart so the grief could emerge and then joy was able to fill that space.”
Heather is a popular speaker and workshop leader and facilitator, with one of her most popular workshops, “Connect on Purpose: Interpreting Your Body's Signals for Greater Wisdom and Empowerment” helping guide people to live their purpose, which Heather describes as “being able to take your talents and gifts and put them into action.” She is currently authoring a book and developing additional workshops, including a meditation group.
A licensed massage therapist, specializing in Thai Massage, Neuromuscular Therapy and Myo-skeletal Alignment Technique, she has a Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling, is certified in Redirecting Children’s Behavior as a facilitator and coach.
